Living the High Life with Sheena

In celebration of the recent NY Times discovery that Black people wear their hair natural (who knew) I’m introducing you to the delightful Sheena High and her magnificent crowning glory.

Sheena first thought about wearing her hair natural in 2010. One of her sorority sisters had been flaunting a riot of kinks and curls for three years and counseled her to “get rid of the creamy crack.” (“Creamy crack” refers to the chemical relaxer many Black women rely on to straighten their hair.) She responded, “My hair is straight out of Africa, it’s not gonna cooperate,” although she had long admired the styles and textures of unprocessed African hair. But when her hair stylist, a beneficiary of the unnatural hair business, said that her hair would look better natural she decided to make the change. Besides, making and keeping appointments for touch-ups was becoming a hassle. 

She didn’t want to do “The Big Chop,” cutting off the relaxed hair while transitioning from chemically processed to natural hair. (The “Chop” is gutsy, and is often immediately followed by the purchase of fierce statement jewelry and screechingly bright lip color.) So, she gave herself three years of graduate school for this “experiment.” The growing out process took about a year and she admits that she wasn’t wild about the big chunk of new growth. “Although [my hair] was natural I was still straightening it. I wasn’t comfortable with how it looked, or with styling it.” She found that putting heat on her hair made it fluffy and bouncy. Fluffy hair that moves is pretty seductive stuff for a sista and harder to give up than dark chocolate dipped strawberries!  On her 29th birthday, however, she decided to turn off the heat and never looked back.

Sheena is now more confident about her hair.  She‘s learned more protective techniques and adores her new look.  No more “dyed, fried and laid to the side” hair for this lady! Check out her incredible style--isn't she gorgeous?
 

 

A Natural Woman

Melissa at the gym

This post is the first in a series on love affairs between Black women and their natural hair.  Meet Melissa, one of my workout buddies.

Melissa first went natural right after graduating from college in 1986.  “People thought I was disappointed about life after college, but I just didn’t do hair.”  Her sorority sisters kept her hair looking sharp while she was an undergrad. One made her hair swing with chemical relaxers, another was a wizard with scissors, a blow dryer and curling irons. 

When Melissa returned to her southern home town after college her mother said, “She done went to the white people’s school and lost her mind.”  Mom added, “We don’t want to look at your nappy head, you know white people don’t want to look at it either!”  Eventually she caved in to family pressure and straightened her hair.  Melissa then landed a job at a hotel and returned to chemical relaxers.  I’d bet that her co-workers and customers relaxed because she didn’t look like a revolutionary waiting to be televised.

She’s locking her hair now, and describes it is an individual journey with heaps of self-love. It’s a warm relationship between a woman, her hair, and her self-image.  As Melissa will tell you, “You can’t get away from yourself.” 

She admires Nina Simone and Maya Angelou with their striking African features and stunning natural style.  She talks about seeing black as a color of power, and how we need to reorient ourselves to that idea.  (Just think about judges wearing black robes.)  Black is also the color of elegance. (Just think of the LBD.)

Melissa wraps up our conversation about hair by saying, “Originally I cut it because I didn’t want to do anything [to it] but now thirty years later I have to decide what to do with it!”  Sounds like a fabulous challenge!

Skipping the salon also has a nice wallet fattening quality. She laughs and says, “I keep that $110 in my pocket.”

Hair Club

Janet Jackson has a new look -- very close cropped hair.  And it’s news.  Celeb watchers everywhere are feverishly asking each other -- why??  Most posts I’ve seen on the topic begin with an outraged “OMG!”

Here we go again -- the age old discussions about hair and women’s identity.  Janet removed the extensions and went natural.  She has (for now) shunned the flowing shoulder length locks that we associate with her.  Does she feel naked or free? 

Janet has a face that the camera loves and she’s rocking her natural hair.  She looked great in the photos that I saw.  This look has been embraced by many sistas for decades and has been carried off with ample attitude and tremendous style.

A pixie cap of curls, kinks, waves.  Yes, the crop is a bold move, but showing the world how much you love your hair is a sign of confidence.  And confidence is sexy.  Go, Janet!